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How To Make Her Want You: The Modern Art of Texting

Do you have an idea on how to make her want you?

Do you think it feels better to be wanted? It is stress-free to make a girl like you if you master how to text her dead on, and at precise times.

Excelling at impressing girls demands accurate timing. Unlike guys, girls bank on their emotions and feelings to be captivated by a guy, whereas guys fall for girls at first sight. In a recent study, it was found that texting enhances communication.

Texting is simple and has to be done properly to get her fall for you. You don’t have to woo her with countless dates and gifts. Girls respond perfectly once you establish emotional connection and rapport. With just a few well-timed texts, you can make any woman like and want you.

How to Make Her Want You: 15 Texting Tactics to Send Her

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"Texting is simple and has to be done properly to get her fall for you..."

Clever Text Tactics for Women

Sometimes you want to text the girl you like only to realize you don’t know how or what to text her.

Use these 15 texting tactics on how to make girls want you:

1. Keep the first text simple:

Don’t think too much about how to text her and make her want you. Just keep your first text plain and simple. “Hey! I thought I’d say Hello!” is a basic text famed for initiating the first text with the girl you desire.

2. Night time is the most convenient time to text her:

If the girl you are dating is comfortable with texting at night, then you are a step closer to getting her. Begin by texting her late in the evening and make sure the conversation goes on until she gets into bed. The inaudible night is so sexy and special for a romantic mood.

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3. Text her when she is free:

Don’t text a girl or call her up when she is busy. If girls were to want you, then your text should excite her and not interfere with her moments.

Getting the perfect time to text her, speaks a lot about you in her mind. Girls don’t like being bugged.

4. Know her routine then choose the time to text her:

Only text a girl when you know she is not occupied.

It should bother you knowing her routine to avoid spoiling her happy time. Explore your recent conversations to identify particular times when she entertains longer text conversations and text her during that specific time.

In turn, she will always anticipate your texts and as well respect them.

5. Keep your text brief and easy:

Short texts will keep the conversation going for long. Catch her attention by keeping replies simple and fast. Long texts can keep her waiting for your response and result in boredom.

Also, if you take long to reply, she has other stuff to keep her busy like watching TV or listening to music.

6. Show interests in her and her day-to-day life:

Show a little concern by asking about her day. Let her know you are interested in unearthing more about her while chatting. In the end, she’ll open up and share a lot with you.

7. Begin with a short text:

If you’ve been texting previously, you don’t need reasons to text her or detailed introductions. Commence with a simple and open text she can quickly respond to or use welcoming emoji. For instance, “Hey! What are you doing?” If she is free she’ll quickly join the conversation but if she is busy, you’ll have to give her time until she is free to reply.

8. Use emoticons:

Leave a few emoticons when texting her goodbye. Research confirmed women use more emoticons than med. She’ll definitely be happy to see you use them. Women love emoticons!

9. Give her a fancy pet name:

Give her a pet name. Something unique and special that once she thought about she will remember you. Pet names are so endearing to hear. So endearing that it will make her feel exponentially special and loved.

"Munchkins", "White Truffles", "Twinkle Toes", "Little Red Nose", etcetera... The more ridiculous the pet name is, the sweeter it will sound. Come up with something original.Come up with something original.

10. Balance the way you flirt:

Avoid flirting with the girl you want all the time. Even if she knows you already like her, keep your flirts minimal to avoid boring her. Text her about her day and she’ll know you are absorbed in getting to know her more.

11. Get dirty when you can:

Once in a while keep her busy with naughty texts and watch how she reciprocates. If she texts to know what you were doing, tell her you were up to something naughty.

Make her picture you naked or present an opportunity that makes her feel and talk naughty. A great way to initiate a sexy conversation is by telling her you were about to strip for the shower or tell her that you are trying out a few new trousers you bought.

12. Flirt when there is an opportunity:

Wait for the perfect moment to flirt with her. There are many times when you’ll find ample time to engage in flirting. Use that moment to tease her and please her. Compliment her when she tells about herself.

13. Get naughty from time to time:

If you know what her ears can handle, go ahead and get naughty. You can get to the extremes depending on how she replies. But play safe to avoid annoyance.

You: “I wish I were next to you now”

Her: “Really? Why?”

You: For various reasons I can’t tell now. You said you’re curled up on the couch, right?”

14. Create personal memories:

Find exciting ways to create lasting bonds between both of you. Tell her about your favorite movies, novel, place you like etc. This way, she’ll find herself thinking about you anytime she encounters something you’ve talked about before.

15. Be sweet before bidding farewell:

Compliment her body, her sexiness, her unique appearance. Tell her something that will make her feel warm inside.

You should focus on such texts just a few minutes before you say goodbye. If she will fall for you, you must ensure she is sexually excited by you and feels intimately attached to you. That’s how love and infatuation mingle.

Strike a balance between making her like you by texting the right way. It is easier to arouse a girl while flirting with her. You can arouse a girl even by complimenting her adorable attributes and telling her how special she is. Learn how to compliment a girl and make her want you at first chat.

To conclude...

These 15 tips on how to make her want you while texting her will help you explore the world of late night texts and endless dates.

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Written by Terrence Kennedy

Terrence Kennedy is the man’s man on a journey to self-discovery. A traveler, extreme sports aficionado, an observant wanderer, a DIY-Know-How, an ultimate outsider and a documentarist of culture, sex, dating, relationship, fashion, style and gentleman's etiquette. He has learned a lot through his escapades, and is happy to pass that knowledge on to you.