Terrence Kennedy
Guys pretty much want two things: food and sex. Anything after that is just icing on the cake. Ladies on the other hand, they’re a little bit more of a puzzle whether we’re talking about the basics of what they want or something as intricate as what turns them on. The complex nature of their sexuality doesn’t mean that women are cold blooded, they’re just a little more of a challenge then men when it comes to pleasing them in all arenas of life. Love it or hate it, these are the conditions that you will need to navigate if you want to get a lady all hot and bothered.
The following ten approaches on how to get a girl horny are all good methods to getting a woman frisky, but just like anything with women, there is no one-size-fits-all. Also, keep in mind what works one day may not work another. There is not instant draw to horny alert button for women, and it is a fine art to master seduction. If you are determined to get a woman hot, make sure that you have a back-up plan to any of these methods. Then also a back up to your back up plan, because there is just no telling what will or won’t work.
Without further delay, here are ten ways you can try to make her hop in the sack with you and how to get a girl horny.
How to Get a Girl Horny
1. Know What She Likes
Obviously, if you just met the girl, unless you are really charming or already have her in the sack, this one is probably not going to work. If this is your intimate partner or a girl you see regularly, then take the time to ask her what exactly turn her on. You can also mention a couple of things that turn you on while you’re at it. P.S. saying everything turns you on is not going to cut it, so have at least a couple of specific answered cued up. A good time to ask these questions is when you two are both lying in bed maybe after finishing up when cuddling. It’ll be a hot conversation that may have you both ready to go back for seconds.
2. SEXTING!!!
Sexting is when you send naughty pictures and words over the phone. It is all the rage with kids, adults and some politicians these days. It is a quick and easy way to send a girl a very clear message of what you are after. Again, this probably is one best reserved for a girl you’ve hooked up with, because otherwise, she may consider you a creep. Try not to be too raunchy, violent or gross with your words, and think of romantic, flirty and non-aggressive ways to flirt. Also, maybe hold off on the dick pic unless she wants one, because let’s face it, no one really wants to see that thing most of the time. Usually sending a picture of a cock is one sure fire way to cock block yourself.
3. Be Assertive
Women do want men that are sensitive about some things, but that doesn’t mean they never want you to be assertive and confident. Don’t be afraid to make decisions, give her compliments, take the lead or anything that shows off that “y” chromosome. There is nothing less of a turn on then a guy that acts so sensitive that you wander if you’ll make him cry when you take him to the sack. Plus, girls really hate being put in the position of having to make the moves, because it is expected of males to keep up with their role. So man up and grow some hair on your chest if you want to take a ride with your lady tonight.
4. Give Her *Sexy* Compliments
There is a big difference between “your hair looks nice” and “damn, your ass looks good in those pants baby”. The first compliment is that one she may receive from her mom or just about anyone, and there is nothing sexy about that. The second one gives her a compliment to boost her ego, but it also lets her know that you are interested in getting in her pants. How far you are willing to push this is up to you, but don’t be afraid to breach the line of propriety every once and while to let her know how you feel.
5. Don’t Skimp On The Cunnilingus
When you do finally get her into bed, make sure that you deliver on all parts of the deal. This include going down on her. A lot. For a long time. Look, you know how you feel about blow jobs. Well, most girls feel the same way about getting head even if most of them will not admit it when you are first getting to know each other. Although, we have to throw in there make sure that you know what you are doing. Read some articles, books and ask friends about different approaches. Remember the time honored tradition that practice makes perfect and work on cunnilingus whenever you get a chance. Once you know how to eat some pussy with skill and finesse after you get a girl to bed the first time and deliver she’ll be begging for you to come back over again.
6. Or Other Foreplay
Every aspect of foreplay is not just something that you should skim over to get through dessert. You need the appetizer of making out, caressing and kissing (everywhere). You also need a lot of what was mentioned in number five of this article fingers and anything else that she may want to try. Part of what makes good sex great is willing to take your time to build up to it. Women need you to take the time to get the engine warmed up, so that they can actually enjoy the grand finale. Time honored wisdom is that spit and lube both are not as good as going natural by getting you both riled up, and it is best to try to get her good and wet before approaching intercourse. If you skimp on this with any frequency, it’ll make sex uncomfortable. Then it’ll make it really hard to make her to even want to come anywhere near the bed with you.
7. Set The Scene
The art of seduction is more than just things that you can physically do with your mind and body, there is a whole additional aspect to it that men often skip over besides on special occasions. Wine, candle light, a massage, a romantic dinner, a movie, dim lighting, etc. Do what you need to do to transform the seduction into a full on experience. Women love having all five senses stimulated to help get them in the mind set of getting it on. This means putting in a little bit of extra work for you, but even just doing one of the any of the list at the beginning of this section will get you a long way. P.S. Once you get your pad set up with these elements of seduction you can reuse over and over again, so it’ll be more efficient that way.
8. Learn How To Give A Killer Massage
So you think you know how to massage? Think again. Unless you’ve spent a considerable time practicing on a person who will give you constructive feedback or you are a licensed massage therapist, you have a tremendous amount of room for improvement. Buy a couple of books, watch some YouTube videos and practice as often as possible to get good technique. Then you can brag to women how awesome of a massage you can give them, so have on hand ways that you can bring up massage in conversation as often as possible. Once they give you the chance to the massage them you are already 90% of the way there, because you are putting your hands all over them. Hint, we hear you can’t really give a good massage unless they are lying down on a flat surface, preferable with their shirt off.
9. Get In Shape
Girls like their eye candy as much as guys, they are just less vocal about it. If you really want to start attracting ladies without having to do much extra work, start getting in shape. Or even if you are already in a relationship, your woman will take notice if you start to shed that beer belly. Let’s face it, there is nothing all that attractive about flabbiness or puniness, so it pays to get your butt to the gym. Not to mention when you are in better shape you can perform better once you do finally get her in bed.