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Does She Like Me? 6 Signs She Really Likes You

Regardless of age, maturity or social status, the question “Does she like me?” is very popular in both men and women.

While many men tend to remain impervious to their relationship status, it reaches a point they want to know whether they are really liked. Being liked by someone special hoists one’s inner feelings.

One of the greatest feelings on the planet is finding out that you are appreciated by someone else and it does not matter whether they are friends, relatives or enemies.

While many relationships experience boundless chaos, the knowledge of being appreciated ensures that despite all the turmoil the two of you are able to cope and move on.

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"One of the greatest feelings on the planet is finding out that you are appreciated by someone else..."

Discovering that your partner actually likes is a boost to your self-esteem and improves your attitude toward such people. Being liked is a great feeling but liking back is the best reward you can offer.

​In today’s world where complex relationships rise and set instantly, it becomes very hard to tell whether someone likes you for real, or they are just toying with your feelings.

According to research, there are different ways to tell if a girl likes you. Below we have outlined a few clues that will make you ascertain whether your girl likes you.

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Evaluate yourself first, It’s important that you are clearly in check of your intentions

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Before you go around asking your friends whether they think your girl likes you, know that having that question in mind is like losing your power to her.

Your friend’s opinions won’t change a lot in your relationship. In fact, their opinions might deepen your wonders whether she likes you.​

The simplest way to know if she likes you is to begin by evaluating yourself. Ask yourself these questions:

  • ​Do you like her?
  • Are you comfortable hanging out with her?
  • Is she the girl you’d wish to go on holiday with?
  • Is she sexually compatible with you?
  • Is she the girl you'd like to wake up with in the morning?
  • Do you like the way she moves, talks and takes care of herself?
  • Are you 100% yourself in front of her?

The last question is the most crucial one. If you are not being yourself and are acting as a different version of the real you, then don’t bother trying to understand if she loves you.

If you are fake, expect no liking or love from an authentic somebody. According to science, honesty is the best policy for a successful relationship.

Does she play with her hair while talking with you?

Body language experts explain that whenever a girl plays with her hair while talking to you, she clearly likes you.

The fact that she is playing with her hair is that she subconsciously wants to look elegant for you.

Moreover, she is playing with her hair so that she can capture your attention with those gestures.

May men experience this scenario but some are unable to decipher the hidden meaning behind a girl playing with her hair, fixing and running fingers through it.

There is so much with how she plays with her hair. Some girls may be slow while others are fast.

The slow queens that gently caress and play with their hairs are professionals with regards to matters of love.

Girls who quickly play with their hairs reveal some degree of shyness and impatience.​

Understanding the deeper meaning of body language can help you evaluate whether a girl likes you, or she is shy expressing her passion for you.​

Is she smiling and has wet lips?

The perfect gesture that a girl is into you is a simple smile that re occurs over and over during the conversation. Girls don’t know how to lie about their feelings through gestures. If the girl you are talking to is delighted because you are able to make her laugh, trust yourself she likes you.

The more you excite her the more she will laugh even to your most silly jokes. Making a girl laugh to tears is not necessarily about your great sense of humor. It is all about her liking and love for you. If you read the message encoded in her smile it may sound like, “I smile because I like you and I hope this feeling is mutual.”

Nevertheless, a girl busy rubbing and licking her lips is sending a very strong signal of liking.

If you keep her smiling and see her lick her lips often, she is telling you she is in need of a kiss. And remember a girl cannot just kiss anyone unless that person has activated the “I want to kiss you” buttons in her.​

Does she look out for you?

Once a girl is very attracted to a guy, she will go an extra mile to show that she cares. If you notice that the girl you are dating shows concerns on your well-being, be assured she likes you.

Also, she is thinking about you and hopes you are doing great. Rarely will you find an ordinary friend deeply interested in understanding how you are doing often. Only those who care for you will go out of their way and ensure you are doing great.

If you realize your girl is fond of this habit, it could be partly instinctual and may lead to developing solid ties naturally. This results in a mutual obligation to safeguard each other’s well-being and comfort.

This is a true sign of a strong relationship where both parties are concerned about each other.​

Is she within a shoulder tap?

If it happens you are together in a busy place like a party or club, a girl will stick very close to you if she likes you and is interested in you.

Girls are more likely unable to start a conversation, hence they choose to stay closer where they can easily be seen and approached.

For instance, she may opt to stick around you in a very strategic position where all you have to see is her.

Girls like increasing their chances of meeting a guy the like at the same time making it easier for men to approach them.

Don’t let any opportunity escape your grip once you find yourself in such a situation.

Always keep your eyes open as these chances are always lurking out there.

Is she still talking to you?

Once you notice that the girl you just met or been courting is still talking to you or responding to your texts, she is obviously interested in you.

Many men try to convince themselves that a girl is not interested just by judging her choice of words in a conversation.

The truth is, if she is still talking to you and responding to your texts, she still has time for you.

Additionally, she is taking her time to focus on you, an ideal gesture she still has interests in you.

All in all, the above ‘does she like me signs’ will give you clues on whether she really likes you. Don’t stick on only these signs as there are more ways to tell if a girl actually likes you.

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Written by Terrence Kennedy

Terrence Kennedy is the man’s man on a journey to self-discovery. A traveler, extreme sports aficionado, an observant wanderer, a DIY-Know-How, an ultimate outsider and a documentarist of culture, sex, dating, relationship, fashion, style and gentleman's etiquette. He has learned a lot through his escapades, and is happy to pass that knowledge on to you.