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Easiest Way to Get Laid: 5 Fool-Proof Steps to Get Laid

A majority of guys will agree that taking a girl home from the bar is hard but it’s not rocket science. It is not something that takes immense skill. All girls want to know is that you are a decent guy and not a creep.

All you have to do is gain a little bit of their trust, and the best way to do that is be yourself with them (as lame as that sounds). This article is formed to set you up for your night out and help with steps to bring a girl home.

In this article you will read about before going out, during, and after the bar, and what key factors you need to consider to be successful in getting laid. Follow these steps, and you will not be leaving the bar alone and will be having a great night ahead of you.

​The Easiest Way to Get Laid - 5 Steps on How to Execute

Dress good because it will be the first thing they will notice

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Dress appropriately for the venue you are going to, and make sure you look as sharp as possible without being obnoxious.

Girls will notice guys who care about their appearance, and will naturally be intrigued to get to know you. Spray your finest cologne, but don’t take a shower with it. Keep your facial hair in order, and hair perfectly styled.

Bringing the complete package out for girls to look at will is definitely the easiest way to get laid. Girls notice guys who look good, just as guys notice girls who get dolled up. Its human nature and you need to establish yourself when you enter the bar.

Girls will take notice, and when you approach them later they will already know who you based on the way they noticed you when you entered the bar.

Women notice Confidence

Walk in like you know how good you are. Head high, and pump that ego. If you are out to go home with someone then you cannot be shy and hang in the background. You have a goal, so go out and make it happen.

Pique their interest, and engage them in simple conversation. You need to find out a couple things about them in order to not waste time. Do they have a boyfriend?

That is the first question that should always be asked because some girls don’t let you know that until you’ve bought them five drinks and wasted 2 hours of your time. Are they having a ‘girls night’?

If yes, you either need to bring in your guys for assistance so you can focus on your girl, or move on because her friends will block you from having any chance of taking her home.

Depending on the circumstance you will have to assess if she is going to be worth your time or not.

Accept the fact that you will get girls who say no, but you can’t let that get you down. Just know they were not worth your time, but you will find someone who is. Just do not let negative results ruin your night, because if your mind frame becomes negative then your will not pick-up, and might as well call it a night.

Just move on to the next girl, and remember that confidence is key​.

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Go Out with your Buddies

Look, going out by yourself will look creepy to girls, because no one likes a loner. Round up the boys, get a good pre-drink going, and go out.

This is also beneficial when approaching a girl who is in a group of girls, because you have your boys as reinforcements to help distract her friends while you talk to your girl. Also, her friends will feel better about you talking to their friend if they also have guys giving them attention.

Most of the time girls block their friends from talking to guys because they are jealous they don’t have anyone giving them attention.

Your guys are there to pick-up as well, but also it is a team effort when approaching a group of girls.

Each guy should pick which girl they want to go for before approaching a group of girls so that no one blocks one another.

However, if you see a girl who you believe you can approach without the guys then do it. Your friends should only be helpful when walking up to groups of girls.​

Have your End Location Pre-Planned so you are Not Scrambling

This part of your night is vital, and will make or break your chance of having sex. Once you have your girl interested in leaving with you then you have to know exactly where you are taking her.

Your place should be clean, and already ready for someone coming over. Have food ready, more drinks if you want to continue, and bed made. She may be back at your place, but it is still not a done deal.

The easiest way to get laid is to impress the girl and be confident in every aspect of your approach. When she comes to your place and sees it clean, organized, and prepared she will feel more comfortable and you will be having sex.

Keep your Intentions known, so you don’t waste your time.

When you are at the bar, make sure that whichever girl you talk to knows what your end game is.

Yes, you will have to have some conversation to get to know the girl a bit, but this isn’t a search for a girlfriend. If a girl you are talking to does not seem to be interested in having sex then move on.

You only have a short period of time to meet someone and take her home. So make sure you are not wasting your time with girls who may just be looking for guys to buy them drinks.

Ask her what she is doing later, and based on her answer you can either move on or pursue her for the night.

Conclusion

When you find a girl who is going to come home with you, do not waste time. Leave the bar as soon as you can, because you do not want her friends to hold her back, or anything else change.

Do not rush out, but let her know you are ready to go whenever she is ready. Stay confident, and make your intentions known. If you beat around the bush then the girl may not realize what you are hinting at, and by the end of the night she may not go home with you and you wasted a night out.

And, most importantly remember that she will be testing and observing you to see if she can give you a bit of trust. If you can earn that little bit of trust then she will go home with you.

Make sure you follow these steps to get you in the right mindset to be successful, and go meet a girl to take home for the night

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Written by Terrence Kennedy

Terrence Kennedy is the man’s man on a journey to self-discovery. A traveler, extreme sports aficionado, an observant wanderer, a DIY-Know-How, an ultimate outsider and a documentarist of culture, sex, dating, relationship, fashion, style and gentleman's etiquette. He has learned a lot through his escapades, and is happy to pass that knowledge on to you.