Terrence Kennedy
I’m sure you would agree that finding and keeping your perfect woman is a task so seemingly difficult as to border on impossible. But having said that, you have no doubt noticed scores of beautiful women walking hand in hand with their less than average boyfriends and have wondered how on Earth they managed to pull that off.
"Keeping your perfect woman is a task so seemingly difficult as to border on impossible"
Well if your next goal is to land and keep the hottest woman you can find, these tips might push you in the right direction, and will also help you decide if dating the prettiest girl in the neighborhood is truly what you want to do.
So, you want to know how to get a hot girlfriend?
Falling in love is a process, and a messy one at that. But it is one that relies on many factors, least of which actually considers a woman’s attractiveness.
Since literature was first invented, poets have been trying to express how beauty fades with age, so if you are looking for the perfect life partner, you should reconsider whether or not a perfect ten is suitable for that.
But let’s be honest with ourselves here, you might not be looking in that direction. You want a girlfriend that turns heads and makes you feel like you’ve got what it takes to land a hottie.
But you’re slightly overweight, shorter than most other guys, and the last time you tried to speak to a woman you just ended up being shot down by them.
So, you feel like hot girls are out of your league; and so for a change you would rather be the guy giving the stink-eye to the lad who is creeping out your girlfriend, rather than being the jerk who is making her uncomfortable.
So if it’s a hot girl you want then by my word as a blogger it is a hot girl you will get, so let’s get to work:
How to Get a Hot Girlfriend: Targeting the Elusive 10's
How to Get the Girl of your Dreams
There is obviously no sure-fire formula for getting the perfect woman into your bed, but rather a set of guidelines which make you more appealing.
Having confidence in yourself (or pretending to) is a first great step; but if you continue to treat her like every other guy she comes across, you may as well just put your application at the bottom of the pile.
Particularly attractive women are sought after to the point where the mere sound of a man’s voice telling her she is pretty is enough to drive her away.
She’s heard it all before, and while she may take pride in her looks, is sick to death of being complimented on them.
Beautiful women have other characteristics which are often overshadowed by their natural ones. So, if you want to turn her head, see value in what she has to offer besides a perfect appearance.
Don't buy in to their frame of value.
That doesn’t mean she won’t flaunt it however, she will shake what her mother gave her because there is still a sense of joy in having a group of men eating out of her hand. So stay away from the murder of crows picking away at her body; they are below her and way below you.
Take an interest in her other characteristics while pushing her hypnotic beauty to the back of your mind. Is she intelligent, interesting or downright eccentric?
Good, appeal to those characteristics in her and she will see something in you that no other man has, the ability to move past her good looks.
Be interesting: offer them more
I’ve read too many blogs that begin with "I am an attractive man but I can't seem to have a good looking girlfriend". Well, maybe that’s because all of the effort and reliance on your physical features have led you to neglect other areas of your personality.
Try and engage her in interesting conversations, avoid talking about how many sit-ups you can do or how you are top of your Cross-fit class.
Women tend to assume that good-looking men are completely devoid of personality, so go out there and prove them wrong (even if you don’t consider yourself a budding male model or an interesting person).
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Don’t make them feel like a decorative piece
The scourge of just about every beautiful woman out there is that their more favourable qualities are ignored to make celebratory space for their beauty.
This makes them feel uneasy and more often than not gets in the way of creating a genuine and natural connection with them.
Make her feel special (without kissing her ass) while completely ignoring her aesthetic features, and you will stand out amongst the crowds of idiots vying for her affection.
Now, to make it last...
So, you’ve managed to make yourself stand out, and to your surprise, have been awarded a chance to build something special with a woman who you assumed was way out of your reach.
Well done, but the hard work is not done yet.
there, ensure she isn’t getting bored, and most importantly, you need to start fostering a healthy relationship with her.
Any veteran boyfriend can tell you how to do this:
*** Don't be needy, Don't be jealous
Okay so she’s super-hot and in demand (but one of the downsides to dating a beautiful woman), and this might lead you to overplay the relationship, or worse, become a jealous mess.
By doing this, all of that confidence and interest that you showed when you met her, gets called into question. She will be hit on, often; and you might feel a little uncertain from time to time about how she feels about you.
The emotions that this will create can be difficult to handle, and even more difficult to hide.
But keeping jealous behaviour under your belt is essential. An overly needy or possessive boyfriend is one of the biggest turn-offs a woman can face, so check yourself before you react to any emotions you feel.
*** Remember, she is only human
One of the biggest causes of a relationship’s failure comes from putting your significant other on a pedestal. Her being an exceptionally attractive woman, and you being easily hypnotised by that, the chance is always there that you can see no wrong in the goddess you have selected.
While this might seem romantic, it is a terrible idea.
Making your girlfriend the center of your life is a sure-fire way to put pressure on your expectations of her, and this will cause tension that will no doubt drive her away.
In every interaction with her, ensure that you remember that she is a mere human being with flaws, weaknesses and problems. Embrace them and accept them, don’t pretend they don’t exist; or you will lose her forever.
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In Conclusion
While we all want a shot on how to get a hot girlfriend, basing your decision purely on their looks could land you in a little trouble. This is because women tend to know when a man simply wants to bed them, and when they genuinely see virtue in their other characteristics.
If you are looking for someone that you hope will hang around, be sure to dig a little deeper than aesthetics; it will make the difference between a one-night-stand and a once in a lifetime relationship.