Terrence Kennedy
We all can agree that Life tends to get in the way of a couple's bedroom activities. Long and arduous hours at work and the privacy from your kids are just some of the hindrances in the dilemma of how to get your wife in the mood for sex
It is our duty as men to stop this from happening. Show your woman that no matter what the day brings you are always ready to take care of her needs.
These 13 simple yet effective sexually suggestive gestures will help you plant the seed of desire into your woman's head. Once it’s planted the techniques shown below will teach you how to nurse it into a fiery flame of sexual passion come night time!
How to Get Your Wife in the Mood for Sex
Wake Her Up with Sensual Touches and Kisses
You may not get morning sex but in this process, she will feel loved and desired! That’s a great way to start her day.
Being loved and desired is the best feeling in this mundane sphere. To a woman, the feeling is amplified 10 times or more.
Buy Her a New Outfit
Your wife should be the apple of your eye; the “only” apple of your eye. In this case you should indulge her with a pretty dress or lingerie that would best compliment the sexy parts of her body.
Make her feel she’s the only desirable girl. Make her feel you’re happy because you’re married to her.
Send Her Flowers
A little sweet memento goes a long way.
With all the gadgetry and technology present in today’s world nothing beats sweet old traditions. Make her feel appreciated like the Queen you know she is.
Make her feel special in front of strangers and co-workers.
As cheesy as it is she will relish that electricity pulsing thru her veins until the workday's end and come home with only one thing in mind; She love you and she wants to show it to you in the bedroom.
Make Her Dinner
It doesn’t have to be fancy like what popular media portrays; Candle lit, mushy music, etcetera.
It would be best that you time it where she will find you in the kitchen with an apron on preparing and cooking dinner. Ask her to help you as you cleverly graze your arm’s skin to hers.
That’s a sexy scene, wasn’t it?
She’ll be in the mood even before you finish cooking you’re the food. You might even do it right then and there and just order pizza afterward.
Give Her a Massage
Pampering is always a good answer on how to make your wife in the mood for sex!
A soothing massage after a stressful day at work would be the perfect stress reliever.
Coupling it with sex while you're doing most of the work in pleasuring her will be a great way to end her day.
Start the massage with her neck and work your way down gently grazing her private parts with your hands.
End the massage with a soft kiss on the neck and proceed with the act gently.
Sending Naughty Text Messages
“I took a photo of you in your lingerie this morning while you’re cooking breakfast. I miss you and I want to touch your body right now and do it”.
Receiving that text message alone conjures a lot of mixed emotions from her.
Receiving it on lunch break or the moment she got to work will stir up her mind with emotions all day.
Maybe she’ll reply, maybe not. The important thing is the message is out there and you are obliged to take the lead tonight when both of you got home.
Watch Naughty Movies Together
Send your kids for a visit to their grandparent's house for the weekend.
Put on a movie with a lot of sex in it, and yes I am being blunt!
You can even watch porn if you ask your wife nicely.
While this may seem a drastic and desperate measure on how to make your wife in the mood it definitely works.
I dare recommend the movie "Unfaithful" by Diane Lane and Richard Gere.
Let the tension rise up and try to resist each other until the movie is over and then proceed with the act.
Play Sexually Oriented Games
Truth or Dare, Naked Twister and Sexual Card Games are good examples of naughty games for couples that turn boring nights into a more sensual one.
Just make sure the kids are way past asleep before playing these games.
A Surprise Night-Out
Plan an entire night out for her without giving away any details.
Make the dinner reservation and layout an entire outfit you want her to wear. Don’t give away the minutest of details and just tell her to get ready by a certain time.
Take control of the night and let her know that you are just warming up for the evening.
Experiment with New Sexual Positions
Make her look forward to the next time you’re going to have sex.
“Maybe we should try this position next time and see if you’ll find it pleasurable.”
The common, monotonous and redundant sexual positions can only get passé and boring for each of you after doing it since forever.
You need variations and should communicate it with your wife. That's one of the easy ways to know how to get your wife in the mood. It's a bit awkward but being husband and wife you should be open to the sexual aspect of your relationship; Should!
Suggest new sexual positions which she can comfortably do. Communicate. Sex, after all, is the greatest communication between couples.
Whisper Sexual Plans to Her on Public
Be a bit kinky and whisper your sexual intentions to your wife while you’re on a train, in a café, at a restaurant or any public areas.
Share conspiratorial glances and let the public wonder what you two are up to.
Create thrill and excitement. Let her mind wander for the rest of the day as the anticipation builds.
Surprise Her in the Bathroom
Lock the bathroom door, open the shower curtain and join her.
If you’re married the bathroom is one of the most private areas you can share with your wife without your kids barging in.
A ten-minute quickie will start her day right and you can continue the escapade when you both got back home from work.
Make Sure She Understands What You Think
Make sure she knows you want her, and how sexy you think she is. Let her know that even though work is crazy for you right now you want alone time for the two of you.
Talk about taking a weekend vacation or sending off the Kids with Grandma and Grandpa’s house for the night.
Anything to let her know she is your woman, and you want her always feeling special.
In Conclusion
It's the small things you do for your wife that counts. A little bit of appreciation, sensitivity and genuine love and care will let your wife remember how erotic and pure your first night together was.