A Woman’s Sexual Arousal Map: Detailed Journey on How to Pleasure a Woman

Most people would agree that knowing how to pleasure a woman makes sex all that more engaging, intimate and wild. It’s a simple matter of giving what you get.

Turn her on and satisfy her, and she will be more involved, more open and more likely to give you sex that matches the way she feels; which is hopefully hot and out of control.

Unfortunately, many men, particularly those that believe they know how to pleasure any woman based on past escapades, believe that there is a sure-fire way to do this, completely negating the fact that each and every woman is different, has different sexual triggers, and most importantly have their own unique list of turnoffs.​

Knowing how to make use of these (or to avoid them), is your first step towards knowing how to please any woman in bed, providing of course, you got off on the right foot to begin with.

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"Knowing how to pleasure a woman makes sex all that more engaging, intimate and wild..."

So, to help you along, here is what can be called a map of a woman’s hot zones, those areas of both her body and her mind that will turn up the heat if you pay attention to them.

Are you ready to understand her sexuality?

​A Detailed Journey on How to Pleasure a Woman Properly

Location one: Her mind is your gateway to better sex

There is a fundamental difference between most men and women and it concerns their mental presence and state during sex (according to American Psychological Association). 

With guys, it’s easy. Tell us that you’re ready to go and ‘boom’, we’re turned on. Which is probably why so many men completely neglect a woman’s mental state when it comes to sex.

Check out this video for some techniques on how to pleasure a woman staring in the mind:​

Most women need to be mentally prepared and stimulated in order to be properly aroused and present during sex or she won’t have her heart in it, and is less likely to achieve climax. Simple thoughts like ‘I need to buy some milk’, will constantly distract her.

Unless you’ve put in the appropriate work into mental stimulation before sex.

That is why I term this ‘location one’, it is your point of entry when trying to get her aroused, but your approach should differ depending on what type of woman she is.

She may need to feel safe in knowing that she is not just another notch, so make her feel important. Compliment her on her non-physical attributes like her bubbly personality or wit.

Introduce her to your circle of friends in a friendly and inclusive way. This will dispel any doubts she may have about being the flavor of the week; and the process of arousal will begin.

Some women on the other hand, need a challenge: playful banter, being hard to get and involving yourself in in-depth and interesting conversations about things she is into is a good way to start. It will draw her out, prove your worth and spark within her the beginnings of desire which will keep her intrigued and aroused.

Location two: Unspoken hot-spots she wants you to know about

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She seems to be getting into it, but make no mistake, there are still plenty of caltrops you could fall into if you are not careful, and blow it altogether.

The worst of these, is perhaps rushing it and going directly for the um… juicy bits. For any woman with even an inch of self-confidence, this could be a deal breaker, so be sure to take your time.

Explore her body, rub down her feet, caress the back of her thighs, her navel and her neck. All of these areas are incredibly sensitive to, and are great trigger points for stimulation.

Part of the idea here is to engage into light teasing, while the other half is about showing her that you are not strictly interested in shagging.

Light teasing will