Mark Greene So, let’s recap for a moment – you have been working on your fitness, style, and grooming. You’ve also made just enough adjustments to your personality so that you come across as charming and funny. All of this means there is a good chance you will bring back someone to your place.
Now, before you go any further, make sure to take a quick look at your place. Does it look like it’s sleepover friendly for the average woman? Remember, you may be a little biased, so take your man glasses off for a second and give your place a once-over.
If you have been living by yourself for a while, then you may find that your home has turned into the ultimate bachelor pad. While this is great news for you, it certainly isn’t what most women are hoping to see when they walk through the door.
So, if you want your night to proceed as planned, then there are a couple of changes you are going to need to make to your home.
Always Be Prepared
It doesn’t matter if you were never actually a Boy Scout, you should always be prepared to have someone come over to your apartment or home. So, if you are heading out for the night, make sure that your place is in order. This way, you won’t have to hesitate when the offer is on the table for you.
Clean Up the Place
This goes without saying but it is still something you should make a point of doing, nonetheless. It is a good idea to remember that each person has a different idea of what ‘clean’ means. So, for you, it might mean switching on the vacuum cleaner every few weeks.
The woman you want to bring over, on the other hand, may prefer it if you clean up a few times a week.
In the end, it is usually best to stay on top of your housework. This way, you will not be left cleaning like a mad man every time you hope to get lucky. Not to mention, regular cleaning reduces the risk of the buildup of dirt and grime which can be a lot more difficult to get rid of later.
Still, if you are planning to go out, try to vacuum or at least clean up the kitchen and bathroom. It will help you out more than you know.
Freshen Up Your Home
The truth is that if you are bombarded with a certain scent for long enough, there is a good chance that you will get used to it. This means that if your home smells like sweat and old pizza, you probably don’t realize it. Unfortunately, your date certainly will.
By cleaning up and getting rid of your trash, you can do quite a bit to improve the overall fragrance of your home. But this on its own may not be enough. Throw open the windows and let some fresh air in. Do this for a few hours before you leave the house. It will prevent your home from smelling stale.
If you really want to make a good impression, you may want to get a few high-quality scented candles as well. The best fragrances to focus on are vanilla, cinnamon, citrus, sandalwood, and lavender are excellent options. They just might end up getting her in the mood as well.
Do Your Research on Décor
You don’t need to be Martha Stewart and have a home that is completely decked out. That being said, a few pieces of nice furniture can make all the difference. See, being well-dressed is one thing but if you can set up your home as well, it really does put you in another league.
Have no idea what you are doing? You should find at least a few interior design magazines to help you out. Even if you don’t have the budget for new furniture, these can offer you tips on how to arrange what you currently have.
Remember, your home doesn’t need to come across as overly sleek or sophisticated. That can seem a little cold and detached. Rather, make it seem warm and inviting. Have a few blankets on the couch or a soft carpet, especially if the season calls for it.
Pay Special Attention to Your Bedroom
Even if the night doesn’t end up going according to plan, you can expect that your lady friend is going to want to take a peek inside your bedroom. So, it does pay off to make sure that this room, in particular, is organized ahead of time.
First and foremost, swap out your sheets for fresh, clean ones – no woman is going to get ten feet near a dirty bed. If you want to take things to the next level, pay attention to the pillow, sheets, and duvet design as well. Pick out something that showcases that you have good taste and style. Oh, and of course, make the bed!
You should tidy up a bit as well. While it can help to neatly put away all of your belongings, you may not be a naturally tidy person. Thus, the least that you can do is to make sure that most of your things are tucked out of sight.
Be the Perfect Host – Prep the Kitchen
By now, you will have figured out that your kitchen needs to be clean and spotless: no dirty dishes in sight. However, this isn’t the end of your responsibilities. Think about it, what’s the first thing that you would do once a woman is in your house? That’s right, ask her if she would like something to drink.
Now, if all you have is beer and water, that’s not really much of an offering. To really make your guest feel welcome, have a couple of drinks around. Most women prefer wine so keep a bottle of red and white on hand. If you really want to be a good host, a few other alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages are a good idea as well.
Want to take it one step further? Have the right kitchen equipment on hand to make a few cocktails. You don’t need to do anything fancy. Just show her that you are willing to make an effort to ensure that her needs are met. This gesture will go a long way.
Have the Right Tools to Set the Mood
If you want a more natural transition, you should figure out how to set the mood subtly. The good news is that it is actually pretty easy to do. To start with, install light dimmers in your living room and bedroom. This way, when you do bring a woman home, the lights will be cozy rather than harsh.
Don’t want to go through all of this trouble? Then have a couple of lamps around the room. Use these to create a warm glow rather than turning on the overhead lights. If you can pull it off, lighting a couple of candles will definitely set the mood.
You don’t need to be told that the right music can get things moving in the right direction as well. So, set up your music system for a more romantic or chilled out playlist. If you rely on your phone for most of your music, create an appropriate playlist ahead of time.
Take Care of the Laundry
When you live by yourself, you tend to get rather haphazard with your laundry. This is why it is a good idea to look around your home and see if there are any socks, underwear, or gym shorts that need to go into the wash. If your laundry has been sitting in a pile for some time, you may want to do a load. It can help your home smell fresher at the very least.
You should check out your clean laundry situation too. If it has been laying there for a while, you may want to put it away. Again, folding or hanging is optional (but recommended). Just make sure that your clothes aren’t lying around when you bring over company.
This may seem like an odd point to make but there is a reason behind it. To start with, if you seem like a man who puts away his laundry, you will come across as being more organized and put together. This, in turn, speaks volumes about your maturity. As you can imagine, this is something any woman can appreciate.
Sure, you may look at this to-do list and wonder if you should even bother with it. However, if you want to invite a woman over and have her feel comfortable, this is exactly what you should be doing.
Following these tips can mean the difference between a quick peck on the cheek and actually sealing the deal. After all, what do you have to lose? So, do yourself a favor and start prepping your home immediately.
