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Meeting New Sexual Partners Online: What To Consider

Meeting new sexual partners today can feel like a minefield. Online dating is now the norm, but it can be challenging to find the right person for you, especially if you’re a swinger, polyamorous or have other unique sexual needs.

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If you’re trying to find someone new to join your menage or to welcome to a sex party, then the internet could be the perfect place to search. However, if you want to get things right the first time and save yourself effort and hassle, then there are many factors to consider.

Here are some of the main things to think about when you’re searching for a new sexual partner online. 

Think About What You’re Looking For

The first step in finding a new sexual partner is to work out what you want from them. Discuss this with your other sexual partners and work out what sort of person you want to engage with and what you’re looking for from your new relationship. You might be eager to engage in a long term sexual relationship, or you might be keen to keep things casual. Whatever you want, you must define it before you start your search. 

Check Out Dating Platforms For The Polyamorous 

Once you know what you want from a new sexual partner, you can explore digital dating platforms. To save yourself time, you should look at the right online platforms. After all, online dating has come a long way over recent years, and where there were initially just a few platforms, there are now hundreds of dating sites to choose from on the internet. Many dating sites have branched out and specialised in serving specific types of dater, such as members of the LGBTQIA+ community or people in specific professions. There are also dating sites designed for polyamorous couples looking to explore their sexuality with new partners. Use these platforms to your advantage to find individuals who are open to polygamy and understand what it entails. This approach will help you to find the right sexual partner for your lifestyle. 

Create An Accurate Profile 

While choosing the right online platform is important, you also need to consider the information that you put on it. If it’s inaccurate or incomplete, then you might find that you don’t get the responses that you want. As such, when using dating websites, honesty and openness are crucial. If you aren’t clear about what you’re looking for, then you might find that you waste a lot of time dealing with individuals who aren’t interested in the same things as you. The best way to avoid this is to be clear when writing your dating profile. Write down your interests and needs clearly, so you can find the right new sexual partners to enrich your sex life. 

Look Beyond Online Dating Sites

Dating sites can be the ideal place to meet new sexual partners, but there are also other places to consider too. Check out online forums for swingers and those that have open sexual preferences. You could also visit Adultseek, a dedicated UK escort service with a range of members. The platform allows you to connect with and communicate with potential partners who might be willing to meet up with you, so check out this service to see if it could help you to find someone to join you in your sexual explorations. 

Respond Promptly And Honestly

Whether you’re using online dating sites or an escort service, you need to make sure that you’re prompt in replying to messages. The best way to do this is to download the app for the service you’re using or to check your account regularly. This approach will mean that your potential new sexual partner doesn’t have to wait for a response and won’t meet someone else in the meantime. 

Take Things Slowly 

When you find someone who looks like a viable option, you might be tempted to jump straight into a new sexual relationship. However, dating sites are a hotbed of inaccuracies. A common type of deception perpetrated on dating sites is catfishing, where an individual provides false information and, usually, a fake image. To avoid being tricked by an individual who isn’t what they seem, you should be cautious and try to take things slowly. Once you’ve chatted to an individual online, you should invite them to a physical meeting at a neutral place where you can safely leave if you find that they are not who they say they are. Also, you should never give out personal details, such as your phone number or address, until you get to know your new sexual partner better.

Online dating isn’t as easy as it seems, but with a little consideration and dedication, you can use dating sites and apps to find the perfect new sexual partner. This article should help you to understand what you need to consider when online dating as a polyamorous lover in 2021. 

Written by Mark Greene

Mark Greene is writer and life coach dedicated to helping men to perform at peak level. He shares dating advice, style tips and strategies for building wealth and success.